Collaborative law
The Collaborative family law process is a relatively new way of
dealing with family disputes.
Each person appoints their own lawyer but instead of conducting negotiations between you and your partner by letter or phone, you meet together to work things out face-to-face.
Each of you will have your lawyer by your side throughout the entire process and therefore you benefit from legal advice as you go. The aim of collaborative law is to resolve family disputes without going to Court.
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Resolution
Resolution's 6,000 members are family lawyers committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes. Our members follow a Code of Practice that promotes a non-confrontational approach to family problems.
Exeter & District Relate
Established for over half a century, Exeter and District Relate dedicate ourselves to helping local people from all walks of life have happy relationships. We support individuals, couples and families through all stages of their relationships offering relationship counseling, couple counseling, family counseling and sex therapy workshops in a confidential and safe environment.
Family Mediators Association
The FMA, established in 1988, is a membership organisation for family mediators. We are a lead body and member organisation of the Family Mediation Council (FMC), the umbrella for professional family mediators.
Separated Dads
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How long will it take?
There is no set answer to this question. The approach is flexible enough to fit in with the needs, time and other constraints of the people involved. Many people will find that they reach an agreement in 4 months (there is then the paper processing part, whilst the Court confirms the arrangements and the implementations stages are concluded). However, many people will take longer to deal with things.
On average, solutions are found in 4 to 5 sessions, lasting between 1 ½ to 2 hours per session.
What will it cost?
Again, there is no set answer as much will depend on the seniority of the lawyer representing you and the area of the country in which they practice.
What happens if I do not want my lawyer to disclose everything I have told them?
Openness and honesty are the two foundation stones of the success of the collaborative approach.
The parties need to each understand that their lawyers will be working together and to do that to the best effect, they must be able to share information with each other.
The collaborative approach has no place for tactical tricks.
What if the four way meetings get very emotional and upsetting?
This can happen from time to time. What will happen will depend in part upon the cause of the upset. Sometimes some time out is all that is needed to get back on track. Sometimes it is more sensible for the meeting to be brought to an end and a new date fixed later.
The two collaborative lawyers will have been trained to deal with these events and will work closely together with the parties to deal with the process whilst acknowledging that there will be upsets along the way.
Collaborative law
What is the collaborative process?
This is a process in which you and your partner, if you are contemplating a divorce or a separation commit to, with the assistance of your lawyers, with the aim of resolving matters between you, without involving the Court.
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